2012's Baccalaureate speaker at the University of Pennsylvania was an unconventional choice for an Ivy League school. To address their newly-minted graduates, aspiring to dazzling careers, they picked a man who has never in his adult life, applied for a job. A man who hasn't worked for pay in nearly a decade, and whose self-stated mission is simply "to bring smiles to the world and stillness to my heart". Nipul Mehta of his 1000 kilometer walk in India and the lessons he gleaned from his pilgrimage. (Here is the full text of his unconventional graduation speech.)
Soon after he ended the pilgrimage, his uncle casually popped the
million dollar question at the dinner table: "So, Nipun, what did you
learn from this WALK?"
Here is his reply:
The W in WALK stands for Witness. When you
walk, you quite literally see more. Your field of vision is nearly 180
degrees, compared to 40 degrees when you’re traveling at 62 mph. Higher
speeds smudge our peripheral vision, whereas walking actually broadens your
canvas and dramatically shifts the objects of your attention. Instead of adding
Facebook friends online, you actually make friends in person, often over
a cup of hot “chai”. Life comes alive in a new way. A
walking pace is the speed of community. Where high speeds facilitate
separation, a slower pace gifts us an opportunity to commune. Life is
simple again. A farmer explained it to us this way: "You cannot make
the clouds rain more, you cannot make the sun shine less. They are just
nature's gifts -- take it or leave it."
The A in WALK stands for Accept. When
walking in this way, you place yourself in the palm of the universe, and face
its realities head on. We walked at the peak of summer, in merciless
temperatures hovering above 120 degrees. Sometimes we were hungry,
exhausted and even frustrated. Our bodies ached for just that extra drink of
water, a few more moments in the shade, or just that little spark of human
kindness. Many times we received that extra bit, and our hearts would overflow
with gratitude. But sometimes we were abruptly refused, and we had to
cultivate the capacity to accept the gifts hidden in even the most challenging
of moments. So cultivate equanimity and accept whatever life
tosses into your laps -- when you do that, you will be blessed with the insight
of an inner transformation that is yours to keep for all of time.
The L in WALK stands for Love. The more
we learned from nature, and built a kind of inner resilience to external
circumstances, the more we fell into our natural state -- which was to be
loving. In our dominant paradigm, Hollywood has insidiously co-opted the
word, but the love I’m talking about here is the kind of love that only knows
one thing -- to give with no strings attached. Purely. Selflessly. When
you come alive in this way, you'll realize that true generosity doesn’t start
when you have some thing to
give, but rather when there’s nothing in you that’s trying to take.
And lastly, the K in WALK stands for Know
Thyself. Sages have long informed us that when we serve others
unconditionally, we shift from the me-to-the-we and connect more deeply with
the other. That matrix of inter-connections allows for a profound quality
of mental quietude. Like a still lake undisturbed by waves or ripples, we
are then able to see clearly into who we are and how we can live in deep
harmony with the environment around us. When one foot walks, the other rests. Doing
and being have to be in balance.
That’s W-A-L-K and remember the importance of traveling at the speed
of thoughtfulness.
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